I was scrolling through Instagram and chanced upon a reel with a man giving relationship advice. My initial response was, not another game-playing advice please – but continued to watch. There I saw a man who was talking through a perspective of trauma – of someone who lost it all and finally found happiness. So, other than finding recommendations that after break up to abstain from dating for a duration (3 months times year of dating) to heal, I also chance upon a discussion on female archetype.
I did one of the quizzes, and it said I am mostly a “Wild Woman”! Followed by “Mother” and “Lover” (same second highest score) archetypes. I will research more and write about it in a different post. I feel that there’s so much about being a woman when I understand the different archetypes every woman embody.
Something about work got on my nerve, too, today. My initial reaction was to give ultimatum (yes, I am tired of my boundaries being broken). But I am giving it another chance, and try to solve it as wise as I can.
Relationships are hard, especially when dealing with dysfunctional people. By the way, the Instagram account that I was talking about is Danny Morel’s. So good contents, very wise, very authentic. Ok, I will not be dating anyone for a year until June 2024.